Therapy During Divorce

Therapy During Divorce

The tumult of emotions in a divorce can often lead to a confusion in priorities. The sad truth is, children get forgotten or used in the divorce situation. While the parents bicker over custody and property, kids get treated like a possession...

Divorce Support

Divorce Support

This blog so often deals with topics pertaining to divorce, and within most of our paragraphs we mention something about support. Not everyone finds the support needed during and after divorce, however. Sometimes family members and friends...

Contested vs. Uncontested

Contested vs. Uncontested

In the first stages of divorce it can be easy to see how the divorce will progress: couples have seen the uncoupling happening and are prepared to work together to end things as smoothly as possible, or the anger is almost palpable between the...

Stress During Divorce

Stress During Divorce

I read in Psychology Today how the death of a spouse rated at 100 on this official stress scale, but divorce registered at 73. The author of this article, one Susan Pease Gadoua, disagreed; she thought divorce scored more like 100 and argued that...

Social Security and Grey Divorce

Social Security and Grey Divorce

If you are divorcing and your marriage lasted ten years or longer, this blog is for you; If you are a virtual voyeur, this blog also might be for you.  There’s a trend in blogs and articles now to cover a topic known now as the “grey...

Let Them Eat Cake!

Let Them Eat Cake!

I’m pretty sure Paul Hollywood and Mary Berry from The Great British Baking Show would have plenty to say about the new bakes trending at divorce parties. Yes, divorce parties. It sounds pretty gauche to hold a party celebrating the end of...

Divorce Checklist

Divorce Checklist

You decided to file for divorce. This decision might possibly rank as the scariest, bravest action you have ever taken. You probably feel relieved and guilty all at once. If you have children, you battled your decision until you knew it was the...

Divorce and Your Finances

Divorce and Your Finances

We recently discussed taxes on our blog, but after reviewing the last few years of blogging, we noticed a severe lack in discussions of finances and divorce. Whoops. That’s kind of a big deal. Let’s rectify this situation, shall we? There can be...